Mabuhay! I am Micaela a.k.a. micamyx/toshtengs in the world-wide-web. I am a fresh Information Technology graduate born and raised in Dagupan City. I am a certified member of the NBSB (No Boyfriend Since Birth) club and I'm proud of it! I'm a TRUE TAURUS. Daughter of a former disc jockey and Chief Nurse, a caring sister to a 13-year old special child . I Love Performing and Philippine Showbiz! I may be intimidating at first, but later on I'll prove to you that FIRST IMPRESSIONS NEVER LAST. I can be the best gURLFwend you'll ever have!
This is one advice I’m giving out to all the guys out there: Don’t you ever play with a girl’s heart. Don’t make promises if you can’t even stick to it.
It sucks when some of my female friends confide to me about the STUPID things that boys do. For example, while in courtship stage, the guy gives all the attention, time and gifts. They keep on stating promises like "I’ll take good care of you forever, I’ll never break your heart, I’ll never make you cry and all that shit. Some girls are also stupid for believing in such stuff. Well we are all stupid in some aspects LOL.
Anyway, isn’t it sad when you two people had a good start then the other one (either the boy or the girl) suddenly had a change of heart? I really hate and pity those guys who can manage to have two girlfriends at the same time. Hate it because they make the two girls cry. Pity because they’re not deserving to be called a REAL MAN.
I am not.against the guys at all because guys are fun to be with and they do really make you feel special, but then we should always think about our actions and weigh the consequences of everything that we do. If you really want to court someone, you must think about the following stuff:
1. Do I really know this woman?
2. Can I accept her good and bad traits?
3. Am I really attracted to her personality or do I just want her to be a trophy girlfriend?
4. Am I willing to be with her and stay beside her even if she achieved much much more compared to me?
5. Can I support her emotionally and financially?
6. Am I willing to turn away from my vices just to make her happy?
7. Am I willing to change my priorities?
8. Can I really fight temptation?
If you are confident with your answers with the questions above, then go! Be a man, BE A REAL MAN!
If you think that the 5th question is too much, then think again. I don’t know with you, but I am the type of person who looks ahead of the future. I think going on flings is just a waste of time and money. True naman, diba?
I do admit that I’ve cried a couple of times over my crushes or past loves, but then after all the crying time I just go on and move on with my life. It won’t be easy for most girls, but it is the best thing to do.
“My wife once complained, you nver gave me anything. No flowers or chocolates. I told her that means I’m serious with you. What I gave her were love letters everyday.”
- Wow, Schumey, you’re romantic pala. I would take love letters over flowers or chocolates anytime! First, because I’m not really into flowers. Second, I can buy myself chocolates whenever I want to. But love letters? Priceless. 
I think it’s rare for men nowadays to write love letters (even love letter emails). So definitely, love letters are really special.
flings are just a waste of time. they really do. you go girl!
Posted by maire at January 31, 2008, 8:57 am
My wife once complained, you nver gave me anything. No flowers or chocolates. I told her that means I’m serious with you. What I gave her were love letters everyday.
Every man gives flowers and gifts when courting. It’s so ordinary. It’s totally different with me. Weird noh?
Posted by Schumey at January 24, 2008, 6:56 pm